Vince Ricco

Vince Ricco

Vince Ricco, a New York City writer with a colorful career as a matchmaker, former theater artist, school principal, and cruise director, crafts engaging articles exploring love, life, and human connections. Drawing inspiration from diverse experiences and fascinating individuals, Vince offers perceptive commentary and invites readers on a journey through the complexities of modern existence and dating, sprinkled with a hint of whimsy. Follow our blog and social media for insightful discussions and entertaining insights into our emotional lives.

Learn what not to talk about on a date for a lasting impression and ensure a smooth, enjoyable conversation.
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What NOT to Talk About on a Date, According to Matchmakers

We’ve recently published a brief guide with suggestions for what you can talk about on a date. Key take-aways from that, in a modern world and with a suitable dating partner, might have led you to understand that the sky is practically the limit. We’re sticking to that, fervently, and adding to it here: with […]

Discover the ins and outs of matchmaking fees in 2024 with our detailed guide. Learn what factors influence the cost, compare matchmaking to online dating, and explore Tawkify's unique approach. Understand if investing in a matchmaker is the right choice for your journey towards love.
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How Much Does a Matchmaker Cost in 2024 (And Why?)

In the search for love, many singles are feeling burnt out by dating apps and turning to other dating alternatives, such as professional matchmaking services, seeking a more personalized and intentional approach to finding a compatible partner. Understanding the cost of matchmaking services becomes crucial for anyone considering this dating solution. Let’s break down the […]

Explore the age gap dynamics, potential advantages and challenges that arise when dating someone younger than you.
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The Pros & Cons of Dating Someone Younger than You – Asked & Answered

In the realm of relationships, age has long been a topic of interest and discussion. As society evolves, so do the dynamics and reality of modern dating, leading to more open-mindedness when it comes to age disparities. However, it’s important to consider the potential advantages and challenges that arise when dating someone younger than you. […]

How to find the right balance between your career or love life? Career-driven people often struggle with this. Learn how you can have both!
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Career or Relationship – How to Find the Right Balance for You

In today’s fast-paced and demanding world, achieving a healthy work/life balance is a constant challenge. Among the myriad of choices we face, one particular dilemma often arises: should we prioritize our career or our relationships? In the reality of modern dating, striking a harmonious balance between these two aspects of life can be complex, but […]

Break free from drinking culture with these unique sober date ideas for sober individuals & dating sober partners.
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11 Best Sober Date Ideas in 2024

Date nights often involve a bit of drinking. A go-to for a lot of our clients are first dates out for drinks and apps; there’s a bit of so-called “social lubricant,” and it’s less committal than a three course meal. There’s also a question of how much alcohol is appropriate, beckoning questions of first date […]

Unlock mindful dating with advice from expert matchmakers. Understand healthy expectations and debunk common myths about finding your person.
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The Most Common Things I Hear as a Matchmaker – Dating Advice

Matchmaking to us means meeting you where you are and putting in a concerted, data- and intuition-driven effort to find someone awesomely compatible with you. Our process also involves discussing your nice-to-haves and must-haves with you, sometimes ranking them, and sometimes challenging them. Working to help you in establishing and furthering your relationship goals and […]

Boundaries in dating are key! Learn how to communicate needs & respect partners for healthy relationships.
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The Importance of Setting Boundaries in Dating

Whether you’re out playing the field, or snuggling every Thursday-Sunday on the couch with your beau, you might have considered where and which healthy boundaries in relationships come into play. As you find yourself dating with intention, setting boundaries in dating might be the very thing needed to maintain a sense of independence, feel seen, […]

Gay dating advice: a guide on finding love, navigating differences, and building connections.
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Dating as a Gay Man – Advice from a Matchmaker

While I’m happy to work for people of all walks of life here at Tawkify, I spent the very first few years concentrating exclusively on matching gay men. I’ve worked for gay men of every shape, color, age, and net worth across the US, and I’ve learned a lot. I’ve observed trends in thought and […]

Ditch the "must-haves" and unlock real connection. Learn how values & self-reflection can help you find your person.
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Non-negotiables vs. Preferences When Dating, According to Expert Matchmaker

Your inquiry: seeking early-mid 30s, athletic, skier, independently wealthy, highly emotionally available and intelligent, 6ft +, never married, amenable to having children soon. Must have a terminal degree. Must speak English, French, and Mandarin. Christian, but should not be a church go-er. Apolitical, bi-racial preferred. Should have a strong relationship with family. No emotional baggage. […]

Explore unique ways to celebrate love this Valentine's Day, from self-care to community involvement. Discover joy in every connection.
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Alternative Non-Romantic Ways to Celebrate Valentine’s Day

Modern, conscious living offers us the opportunity of challenging traditions and customs, or at least trying to understand them. However you may be celebrating this February 14th–aptly named Singles Awareness Day, Palentine’s Day, and Galentine’s Day–we’re here to make sure this rose, by whichever other name–smells just as sweet. We’ll provide context and ideas for […]

Considering matchmaking? Read our guide on its pros and cons to see if it's the right choice for your dating journey.
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Pros and Cons of Matchmaking Services

We’ve moved from a time where people once greeted the idea of online dating with a level of skepticism to viewing it very much as a social norm, and a number of services have been curated to accommodate for niche interests and dating styles. In an attempt to date with intention, many people download more […]

Explore the unique challenges and opportunities of dating as a man in your 30s, 40s, and 50s. This guide offers insights into balancing career and personal life, building deeper relationships, and navigating the dating scene through each decade.
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Navigating the Dating Scene: A Men’s Guide for the 30s, 40s, and 50s

The dating world can be a unique experience at any age, but for men in their 30s, 40s, and 50s, it comes with specific challenges and opportunities. Whether you’re re-entering the dating scene after a long relationship or continuing your search for the right partner, each decade brings a new perspective on love and relationships. […]

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